A little while ago, my best friend's Mom, Mary Lou Miller, passed away from cancer. Many of you have probably read my blog post to her from a couple weeks ago. When she was alive, she wrote many bible studies. There is one in particular that she wrote on January 20th, 2002 that is applicable to our lives today. This bible study was included in the program at Mary's Life Celebration. It is just one of MANY that she wrote. She really wanted to get published, and her daughters have decided that they are going to do that for their Mom. One way or anther, Mary's words will be published. She may not be on this earth any longer, but her words can be here for many years to come. Here is Mary's bible study, "Can You Praise Me Now?"
Can you praise Me now? I've heard that question in my head several times over the past week or so. I've had several good reasons to not praise Him now. I've had some anger and disappointment and I've blamed Him. Help me to thank You in the tough times, God - maybe not for them, for You do not send hurt and heartaches just to teach me or help me grow. But help me to praise You in them, in spite of them, because of Your goodness throughout them.
"Oh how great is thy goodness, which thou hast laid up for them that fear thee; which thou hast wrought for them that trust in thee." Psalm 31:19
I understand the tendency we have to blame God when what we've prayed for and dreamed for and wanted doesn't happen. The feeling is such a lack of hope and deep despair and 'why Lord' that it overwhelms us. Why do some prayers get answered and other don't? Was it the way I asked? Was it what I asked for? What did I do wrong? Well, if you're a Buddhist you just chalk it up to bad karma, man. In your next life, things will be better. But if you're a Christian or a Jew, then you wonder if you've angered God and are being punished.
Jesus, in all the messages He gave, never once said "Follow Me and things will be easy." He did say to trust Him in all things and to be thankful. Hey, if things were always easy, trusting in Him would be a breeze. But how are we to learn to submit to Him and trust in Him if we don't have trials and pain to go through to understand that only through His Will can our lives improve?
"My help comes from the Lord, the Maker of heaven and earth." Psalm 121:2
Sometimes we have to be reminded to trust in Him. We have a tendency to handle all our problems ourselves and only when we've exhausted all our options do we turn to Him. And when your prayers have been answered and yet things don't go smoothly, then what? Do we despair? Do we give up? Do we quit? It's at times when the worst is happening that God expects us to be strongest. Positive prayers at the darkest hour bring Light to a situation. But without the positive prayers, God can't shine through the anger, accusations and blame.
I've praised Him and thanked Him but it's been through gritted teeth and with thoughts in my head about why, again, do these awful thing happen. And yet again, His peace comes to me and my anger cools. My need to find a reason and to blame recedes. I may have started my prayers in rebellion but they end on a positive note. I wish I could share that peace with you, but it isn't mine to give. It's God's and the only way to receive it is through humble submission to Him. We are all sinners and we all fall short of His Glory. Until and unless we treat each other as blessed children of God, regardless of our sins, His Peace cannot be shared.
Bad things happen and sometimes there are no reasons for them. God isn't going to reveal everything to us and it's His Will that we don't waste time wondering why things happen. It's His Will that we accept our lack of knowledge, our hurt and pain and trust in Him NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS. Then His Peace can surround you and comfort you. Can you praise Me now?
I hope everyone who read Mary's bible study was touched and enlightened. I know I was. His word is always there, whenever we need it. It gives encouragement at just the right time. Well, until next post, be blessed!